Whether you’re preparing to have lesbian sex with a partner for the first time, or having lesbian sex alone with a sex toy – there are some things every woman should think about before, during and after.
Before: It’s important to make sure your expectations are realistic before having lesbian sex for the first time. Remember that everyone’s body is different and it can take time to get to know yours and your partner’s body in terms of what pleasure reaps the rewards. Talk through any questions or anxieties you have with your partner – try not to just ‘go-with-the-flow’ as this could lead to a less enjoyable experience. You should also remember that if at any point during the proceedings, one person isn't enjoying themselves then it's your responsibility as an adult in a consensual relationship,whether long-term or during a lesbian sex hookup, to protect each other and back off until 'playtime' resumes.
During: During lesbian sex for the first time it may be necessary for both parties involved to open up communication so that the process flows smoothly. Things like landmarks (fingers, toys etc) can be useful when discussing pleasure points and how things can be implemented successfully into foreplay. Safety is really important too - be sure to stick religiously by using latex protection available from drug stores; both partners should read up on sexually transmitted diseases and infections so they're educated on what to look out for, especially when undergoing sexual activities involving fingers and toys as well as more penetrative sensations.
After: After having lesbian sex for the first time it is natural never returning back simply because of fear involved. To ensure development within yourself and trust within your partner it’s really important that both parties take their time talking through their experiences post tryst so that unconscious confidence grows over the initial apprehensions which occasionally arise from similar situations experienced by humans alike. From this point productive dialogue can help each individual understand exactly how they provided mutual pleasure leading onto further exploration in bed/bedroom together!
Talk to Someone Who's Experienced
If you're a lesbian or bisexual woman and you've never had sex before, it can be hard to navigate. That's why it's so important to find someone who has experience in this area and is willing to talk about it with you.
Talking to someone who's experienced can help you have an honest conversation about the things that intimidate or excite you. They can help answer questions like: What willl it feel like? How do I approach my partner(s)? Is there anything they should know beforehand?
Having someone knowledgeable talk you through the basics of having lesbian sex for the first time can be invaluable in preparing yourself mentally and physically for what's ahead. Also, having a support system around you is essential when going into something new and unknown. Supportive friends and family members can always lend their ears if needed.
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